Definitely, Maybe

Life always has a way of giving us a second chance. Look at what a second chance did for our Indian wrestler, Sushil Kumar. After loosing his first round bout he was given a second chance and he went on to win the bronze medal at the Olympics.

Second chances are all about redeeming ourselves and avoid repeating the same mistakes. Taking another stab at life. I know I have had my own share in love, but somehow blundered it up initially but I guess I got it right now.

A couple of minutes a go watched the movie Definitely, Maybe, about man on the cusp of a divorce, spending time with his daughter who just had her sex-ed class, and curious to know how he met her mother. So he creates a story about his three loves of his life, changing their names, and all the heartbreak he goes through. For the daughter this is not only a love mystery game of which one of her father's lady love is mother, but finding out about love and its complications, and most of all her father. For him it's a realisation about love and what was there in front of him and with him the whole time.

Many a time we are searching for love when love has always been right in front of us, staring us in the face. Love been our confidante, our friend, but we always turned a blind eye towards it or didn't realise or may even deny it. Love is all about the friend that you care, about the one you cannot live without, about the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. The one you unintentionally hurt and then feel like a dog-gone wretch about it. Love is your best friend. I know I found love and love is my best friend, the one I cannot do with you.

P.S. I was really surprised to see Ryan Reynolds act in a mature way (for a person normally associate with screw-ball comedy). And I am definitely falling in love with Abigail Breslin with each movie of hers that I see.

So am I in Love
Definitely, Maybe

Love and the Whole Damn Thing

Why does love have to be so contradictory in itself. It's a beautiful emotion, but you need to be so careful with it, because unknowing you can hurt the one you love. Though the saying is that the you should set your love free, if it returns then it's yours, but somehow it seems like we are never free. There is always a doubt in your head and chain on your feet. You change to a person to please the other half. You make assumption but you are not sure if they are right or wrong. You are worried that you may say or do something and you may just loose everything for some stupid reason or something you did. You compromising and avoid doing things so that it doesn't make your other half feel bad. You need to live your life in a particular way. Why does it seem so difficult to be in love??? You care for the person so much but even then you may do something that makes them feel that your insensitive and not worth it.

Why does love have to be so difficult????