The Burning Desire Confliction

Desires are something we all have, we all crave. That of the flesh is something we need, something we all go through, unless one has taken a vow of celibacy, or has attained nirvana from all desires. Maybe it has its basis in the need to procreate, to spread the family tree. But then not all physical desire is based on the need to procreate, to sow your wild oats, to phoolo falooo, extend the family line. At times you have physical desires simply because you crave for them, no strings attached.

Sometimes you face this intense desire for physical intimacy, for the pleasure of the flesh, to fuck or be fucked (to put it a little crudely), depending your preference, your orientation, which can squarely be blamed on raging hormones, can be labelled as horniness, nymphomaniac. Or it can be blamed on our loneliness and our need to have a physical intimacy.

But the question is, is it wrong to be horny? Is it wrong to desire a physical pleasure without having any meaning attached to it? It’s easy to label these desires as slutty, to blame it on loose characters, to look down up on them, to bottle them up, and never let them out. But is there anything wrong to crave a physical intimacy without meaning, without any strings attached, for hook ups and meaningless sex? It’s easy to judge others but difficult when one goes through the same thing, the same craving, the same unshakeable burning desire.

There’s nothing really wrong with giving into these desires, to date causally, to harmless flirting, to hooking up, to one night stands. After all we are all consenting adults, and anything done with consent and in safety, has nothing wrong with it. In fact repressing desires may create more trouble in the future. If done safely, and if it’s what you want, there’s nothing wrong to give into your burning desires, you physical needs and wants. There’s nothing wrong in giving a release to the sexual tension that reside within you, other than a self gratification. Gone are the days for saving your self for your wedding night, saving yourself for the right person.

You can give into your burning desires and not think too much about it, but taking enough of precautions, using protection, consenting and keep it within limits. It’s easy to go overboard, but then everything has a limit, never try to cross them. So in the end, it’s all upto you, what you want and you ready to give into you desires, to give yourself a release.